It's time to start shedding again....

#5 I have a relationship in my life that i have spent and spend tons of time on. the problem is that the "tons of time" hasn't seemed to progress the relationship into what i had hoped it would become. it's not horrible, it just doesn't live up to the potential i see in it or the dreams i had for it. i have become aware of just how much time and energy (and sleepless nights) i have put into this. what could the rest of my life be like if i took that time and energy and put it into something else? for instance, this morning i spent time and energy reading blogs, articles, and looking for books related to this relationship.... understanding it, improving it, etc... you get the picture. well, by the time i looked at the clock the morning was gone and i had eaten up the time i had set aside to exercise and get organized for the week and work on a my spanish lesson. the relationship is too important to bag, but the rest of my life is too important to be ignored. so... ONE TIME PER WEEK i will discuss it, explore it, try to think of ways to improve it, read books/blogs/articles about it, etc. i am shedding my obsession with this relationship. #3. get rid of undesirable - to get rid of something that is unwanted or unnecessary